In Pursuit Of "Lost" Passion

I met with a pastor this week who was suffering from passion fatigue. He was tired — having family problems, and sick of dealing with negative thinking and acting people. I felt for him, because I have been there.  Little things become really big things, and then all of a sudden you lose perspective. 

Here is what I suggest ...

1. Get some rest.  Take time off no matter what.
2. Laugh with someone. When you laugh you tend to forget the negative.
3. Stop taking yourself so seriously. If you were out of the picture (not including your family), would life go on? Would they have church this weekend? Would other critical needs be met by someone else? They most likely would.
4. Examine your motivation. Why do you do what you do? Is ministry a call to glorify God, or to be personally pleasing?  I think you know.
5. Why do you feel the way you do?  Have you lost at something, been disappointed, been rejected, failed in your effort to rescue someone?
6. What is your passion? Do you dream big dreams or have you settled for the ordinary? I deal with lots of folks who have stopped expecting the unusual.
7. Do you enjoy quality time with your best friend? No — not your spouse or your colleague but "the friend that sticks closer than a brother" — Jesus.  Do you?  Talk with Him!
8. Are there un-resolved conflicts at home? I promise you ministry suffers when the lights at home are fluttering.
9. What was the last good book you read? Reading encouraging, challenging things will rub off on you.
10. How's your health? Walking will sweep away anxiety. Go for a 30-minute stroll — do it now! And if you need to see a doctor — do it!

Passion for your mission is most important.  Lose it and your call turns into a job — and you don't want that.

Until next time — Be blessed!

Comments

[Roger]

Dr. London:

Thanks for the practical counsel. We can grow weary and we need to take opportunity to rest, rejuvenate and get fresh perspective. Thanks for your heart for pastors.

[John Park]

Pastor London, Thanks for your encouraging council. I actually talked with one of my pastor friends in Canada for about thirty minutes. I felt much better after talking with him. Friends do hold each other accountable.

I read your book "They call me pastor." It was a great blessing. I am intending to read more of your books. Thanks for your ministry.

[Scott Couchenour]

This is a great post. Ministry can be a tough road. Pulling off to the side to rest, laugh, enjoy family - can help so much.